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\u2014 Amelie A note before reading:<\/em> I am sharing this story with a little courage, and from a place of healing rather than crisis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n There was a day when the doctor my son had been seeing spoke to me very sternly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n At the time, I was on the verge of being crushed by work. Seeing me like that, my son said quietly,<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cMom, I think you should see a doctor too.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Then he went ahead and made the appointment for me himself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It should have been something I did as the parent. The day of the appointment came.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After listening to me for a short while, the doctor spoke quietly, but very clearly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYou are worrying your son and asking him to take on a role that is far too close to that of a partner. I couldn\u2019t say a word.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But I understood exactly what he meant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A parent\u2019s anxiety and pain eventually fall on the family members closest to them. The child who should be protected I believe that was what the doctor was trying to say.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I didn\u2019t cry in that moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n But standing on the train platform on my way home, I was that exhausted. That overwhelmed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And yet today, I am here, able to put those memories into words.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Looking back now, his words were very harsh. Sometimes, when people are trying to protect someone they care about, I still think about that day from time to time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And when I do, I find myself thinking this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n People sometimes let their pain fall onto the ones they love most. If you are reading this and find yourself in a similar place, When you are struggling, It may simply mean that you have been trying, for a very long time, to keep going.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And that day, too, \u2014 Amelie <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u3053\u306e\u8a18\u4e8b\u306b\u767b\u5834\u3059\u308b\u300c\u5fc3\u7642\u5185\u79d1\u306e\u5148\u751f\u300d\u306f\u3001\u606f\u5b50\u304c\u4ee5\u524d\u901a\u3063\u3066\u3044\u305f\u75c5\u9662\u306e\u5148\u751f\u3067\u3059\u3002 \u4eca\u3001\u79c1\u305f\u3061\u304c\u304a\u4e16\u8a71\u306b\u306a\u3063\u3066\u3044\u308b\u30ab\u30a6\u30f3\u30bb\u30e9\u30fc\u306e\u5148\u751f\u3084\u5fc3\u7642\u5185\u79d1\u306e\u5148\u751f\u3068\u306f\u3001\u5225\u306e\u65b9\u3067\u3042\u308b\u3053\u3068\u3092\u3001\u306f\u3058\u3081\u306b\u66f8\u3044\u3066\u304a\u3053\u3046\u3068\u601d\u3044\u307e\u3059\u3002 \u4eca\u65e5\u306e\u30d6\u30ed\u30b0\u306f\u3001\u5c11 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-86","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yorimichi-diary.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yorimichi-diary.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yorimichi-diary.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yorimichi-diary.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yorimichi-diary.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=86"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/yorimichi-diary.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":91,"href":"https:\/\/yorimichi-diary.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86\/revisions\/91"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yorimichi-diary.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=86"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yorimichi-diary.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=86"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yorimichi-diary.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=86"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
The Day a Doctor Scolded Me<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
The doctor mentioned in this article is the physician my son was seeing at the time.
He is not the counselor who has been supporting me for the past four years.
They are different people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I was barely getting through each day, and looking back now, I think both my heart and my body were close to their limit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But I was so exhausted that I couldn\u2019t even manage that on my own.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I cannot treat a mother who is being that irresponsible.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And in many cases, it is the children who absorb it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
ends up becoming the one doing the protecting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I felt completely lost, as if I wanted to disappear from everything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But I also believe that behind that anger, there may have been a sincere wish to protect my son.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
they reach for very hard words.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Not because they want to,
but because they simply don\u2019t know where else to put it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
please know that you do not have to carry it alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
it does not mean you are weak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
was simply one moment along the long, winding detour
that has been my life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
<\/p>\n\n\n\n